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Friday, June 27, 2025

Unless the Lord Builds the House

 


 
This message was preached at Word Of Grace Church on June 22nd 2025 by Donald. For the audio & video please click here.  For the worship please click here. 

Unless the Lord Builds the House

Why Dedication to God Changes Everything

In a world that runs on ambition, deadlines, and self-made success, the ancient wisdom of Psalm 127 reminds us of a deeper truth: “Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labour in vain.”

This verse, shared during a recent Sunday sermon, reveals a profound and often overlooked principle — true significance is found not in what we build, but in who builds with us. Whether it's our careers, families, dreams, or homes, when God isn’t at the foundation, all our striving is ultimately empty.

Dedication Is More Than a Ceremony

We often associate “dedication” with a one-time event — a child’s dedication, a wedding, or a church service. But real dedication is daily. It’s choosing to say, “God, take my time, my resources, my talents — all of it is Yours.”

That dedication ripples through generations. It’s not just about the present moment, but about planting seeds for a legacy built on God’s truth.

The Illusion of Control

Modern life tempts us to believe that we’re the masters of our fate. We are encouraged to optimize, hustle, and “build our brand.” But as the speaker pointed out, “The lives we create for ourselves may keep others out,” boxing us into small, self-centred worlds.

Yet storms will come. And when they do, no amount of wealth, skill, or strategic planning will sustain us unless we’ve built on the unshakable foundation of God.

When God Builds, There’s Rest

Psalm 127 also speaks of God giving His beloved sleep. Not just physical rest, but peace of heart — a gift in a world full of anxious toil.

Rather than chasing vanity or success for its own sake, we’re invited to hand our ambitions to God. Like the boy who gave his five loaves and two fish, what we offer may seem small, but in God’s hands, it multiplies beyond our imagination.

A Call to Rethink What Matters

Is our life centred around God, or have we subtly adopted the world’s “me-first” ideology? Are we pursuing success in things that, in the end, don’t matter?

William Carey once said, “I’m not afraid of failure. I’m afraid of succeeding at things that don’t matter.” That’s the invitation: to shift our focus from vanity to purpose, from self-building to God-building.

So today, pause. Reflect. Ask yourself — who’s building your house?

In a world rushing toward success, wealth, and recognition, there is a quiet yet powerful truth that echoes from the words of Psalm 127: “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labour in vain.”

This message was at the heart of a recent sermon — one that not only challenged the ideals of modern life but called us back to a life of eternal significance, centred on God, relationships, and legacy.

Don’t Just Build — Let God Build

We all build something: careers, homes, reputations, and dreams. But the speaker reminded us that unless God is at the centre of it, all our labour ends up in anxious striving. True rest comes not from what we accomplish, but from knowing that God is in control.

“Rest is a weapon,” he said. “The enemy hates it because he wants you stressed and occupied.”

When we trust God, we gain more than peace — we gain purpose. Even in chaos, we don’t have to act out of control, because our anchor is secure.

From Vanity to Value

In the age of likes, hustle, and superficial wins, the question we must ask is: What truly matters?

  • Are we giving our best hours to work while our children receive our leftovers?
  • Are we present with those we love, or simply performing life beside them?
  • Are we building for ourselves, or leaving behind something worth inheriting?

True wealth isn’t in assets — it’s in relationships, in time invested, and in a life marked by faithfulness.

Children: Not Just Our Future, But God’s Gift

Psalm 127 describes children as “a heritage from the Lord… like arrows in the hands of a warrior.” They are not interruptions to our legacy — they are our legacy.

“Every child has the potential to inherit the kingdom of heaven… and it’s our responsibility to prepare them for it.”

Too often we treat children as background noise, burdens to manage, or projects to fix. Instead, the speaker challenged us to see every child as a carrier of God’s vision — one who must be shaped with love, not just correction.

  • Do you notice the children in your life?
  • Are you building a legacy they can build upon?
  • Are you training them in the way of the Lord — not just with your words, but with your life?

Because in the end, children learn more from what we are than what we say.

Legacy Isn’t Luxury — It’s Discipleship

We spend our lives trying to leave behind fortunes and fame. But let us always remember this:

“The world leaves behind materialistic and atheistic ideologies. But God calls us to leave behind moral and spiritual foundations.”

What are we really passing on? Wealth that fades, or a faith that lasts. Are we raising kids who know how to calculate price — or value?

Let’s teach them what matters:

  • How to walk with integrity.
  • How to love deeply.
  • How to seek God above all else.

Final Reflection: A Life Dedicated to God

It is not just about children or parenting — it is about living a dedicated life. A life where every relationship, every choice, and every dream are laid at God’s feet.

“Life is not all about children. But it is all about living for God.”

And in doing that, we will leave behind more than memories. We will leave behind a legacy of faith — one that shapes generations.

Are you building a house God can dwell in? Or one built in vain?

As we return to our daily routines, let us pause and pray:
“Lord, build my life. Help me invest in what matters. Let my legacy be shaped by Your hands, not mine.”

 Word of Grace is an Evangelical (Born Again),  Spirit-filled (Charismatic), Reformed, English-speaking church in Pune that upholds the Bible as God's inspired Word for life. We are a church community that has people from every part of India and parts of the world. We are here to put the Great Command and the Great Commission into practice by equipping and releasing every member into works of service.  Word of Grace is part of a wider international family of Churches called RegionsBeyond.To know more about us please log onto www.wordofgracechurch.org. 

Wednesday, February 26, 2025

Pictures of the Church - Part 3

 

 This message was preached at Word Of Grace Church on 23rd February 2025 by Navaz. For the audio & video please click here.  For the worship please click here. 

THE CHURCH - A FAMILY

INTRODUCTION

The Bible records many pictures of the church. We are called the army of God, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, the temple of God, the new Jerusalem, the body of Christ, etc. Which one do you identify with the most?

Today, let us look at the church as the family of God.

From the beginning, we see family on display in the trinity—the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. They are perfect in unity, love, and cooperation. As Christ's followers, we aim to become more Christlike in who we are and what we do.

GOD AND MAN

Creation -God always wanted to have a relationship with us. He created the most magnificent creatures and placed them on the Earth. Then, He made man by His breath and hands to enjoy a loving, intimate relationship with Him.

He did not just create us but gave us power, authority and dominion – to govern the earth as he would because Adam and Eve were His Image bearers.

Corruption -Then sin came in and ruined everything. First is fractured our relationship with God. Adam and Eve were banished from the garden. They lost their power, authority, and dominion and, most of all, lost their relationship with God. Where God was once their Father, they are now orphaned. This orphan heart is passed down to all of humanity through Adam. The orphan heart is distrustful, hateful, competitive, selfish, willful, disobedient and everything else evil you can imagine. Darkness, evil, chaos and destruction become the order of the day.

Yet God does not give up on us. He still wants to carve out special people, a family that will display His glory on earth, as part of His redemption plan. He calls out Abraham and makes a covenant with him, saying that he will become a great nation, and all the nations will be blessed through him.

Fast-forward, and we see God make the nation of Israel a special people to display His glory. But the rebellion was so deep-seated in man's heart that they kept breaking that covenant with God.

But God always had an eternal plan. In the fullness of time, while we were rambling in our rebellion and sin, God sent His Son on earth to show sinful Adam’s descendants how true humanity ought to live. He lived a perfect life, and God placed Jesus in a family. He demonstrated what an obedient son looks like.

The Cross - Jesus fulfilled His mission on the Cross: to reconcile humanity to the Father. The flaming sword that puts a divide between us having eternal life is now replaced by sacrifice on a cross that breaks the barrier and tears the veil separating us. His blood made a way for us to approach the throne of grace boldly and by which we can now call Him Abba Father.

We who were once alienated from God and brought back to him are now Children of God as we put our trust in Him. We have been adopted into His family. What does that mean?

New Creations -We now have His Divine Nature Activated in us. We are new creations in Christ.

Our nature, identity, and purpose are restored to us. We go from orphans to sonship, abandonment to belonging, aimlessness to purpose, insecurity to security and perfect love in Christ.

All this takes a lifetime to work out as we submit ourselves to the transforming power of the Holy Spirit. This process is called restoration or sanctification. We are being changed from one degree of glory to another. The more we obey, the more we change.

WHO WE ARE AS CHILDREN OF GOD IN HIS HOUSEHOLD.

What does scripture say about us as a family of God?

FAMILY FEATURES

·      Every family has a culture. Culture means a set of beliefs and behaviours that everyone has and does that are unique to that culture.

The culture of the family of God is simply Kingdom culture. Do you want to know what that is? Read Matt 5 to 7, the Sermon on the Mount.

·    We are multi-generational 2Tim 3:16

·    We all serve – We are not a restaurant where you look to be served, you can criticise the service, and your focus is on what you get to consume.

In a family, we all serve each other, are sacrificial, give, and look after one another.

GOD IS OUR FATHER 

Matt 6: 9, “This, then, is how you should pray: Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name,

Rom 8:15-16 The Spirit you received does not make you slaves so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.” 16 The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children.

2 Cor 6:18 And, “I will be a Father to you, And you will be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.”

 

1 John 3:1 See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him.

CHRIST AS THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY

  • Ephesians 5:23 – “For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior.”
  • Colossians 1:18 – “And he is the head of the body, the church. He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, and in everything, he might be preeminent.”

WE ARE JESUS BROTHER’S And SISTERS

  • Matthew 12:49-50 – “And stretching out his hand toward his disciples, he said, ‘Here are my mother and my brothers! For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.’”
  • Hebrews 2:11 – “For he who sanctifies and those who are sanctified all have one source. That is why he is not ashamed to call them brothers.”
  • 1 Peter 3:8 – “Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind.”
  • Romans 12:10 – “Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honour.”

HOUSEHOLD

Eph 2: 19 Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God’s people and also members of his household,

1 Tim 3:15 If I am delayed, you will know how people ought to conduct themselves in God’s household, the church of the living God, the pillar and foundation of the truth.

Gal 6:10 Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.

Heb 3:6 But Christ is faithful as the Son over God’s house. And we are his house, if indeed we hold firmly to our confidence and the hope in which we glory.

UNITY AND FELLOWSHIP IN THE FAMILY OF GOD

  • Acts 2:42-47 – “And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.”
  • Colossians 3:13-14 – “Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.”
  • Ephesians 4:3-6 – “Eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit—just as you were called to the one hope that belongs to your call—one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.”
  • Hebrews 10:24-25 – “And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.”

LOVE AND CARE WITHIN THE CHURCH FAMILY

  • John 13:34-35 – “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this, all people will know that you are my disciples if you have a love for one another.”
  • Galatians 6:2 – “Bear one another’s burdens and so fulfil the law of Christ.”
  • 1 Thessalonians 5:11 – “Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.”
  • 1 Timothy 5:1-2 – “Do not rebuke an older man but encourage him as you would a father, younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, younger women as sisters, in all purity.”

There are 4 types of people in a family:

·        Infants, those who serve, the old, and those who hang around and do nothing. Which one are you?

This is who we are. Much more can be said, but this is enough to chew on and think about.

Next week, we will examine what a family does. Today, we just examined who we are.

CONCLUSION

Where are you in the family? An infant, one who serves, one who is old or the one that hangs around and does nothing.

Do you have a buy-in to this local household of God? Is it evident to the others that you belong, not that you just attend? If you do not attend the family gathering, will you be missed?

If you do not serve and contribute to this local household, think about what you need to change to make that shift.

Eph 4:11-15 - So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, 12 to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up 13 until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.

14 Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. 15 Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.

This is the final goal for all of us – to attain maturity and reproduce.

We will look more into this next week.


Word of Grace is an Evangelical (Born Again),  Spirit-filled (Charismatic), Reformed, English-speaking church in Pune that upholds the Bible as God's inspired Word for life. We are a church community that has people from every part of India and parts of the world. We are here to put the Great Command and the Great Commission into practice by equipping and releasing every member into works of service.  Word of Grace is part of a wider international family of Churches called RegionsBeyond.To know more about us please log onto www.wordofgracechurch.org.