Baby Dedication - A Commitment by the Parents

 

    This message was preached at Word Of Grace Church on 5th July 2026, by Colin. For the audio , please click here.  For the worship, please click here.  

Baby Dedication: More Than a Ceremony—A Parent's Commitment to Raise a Child for God

"Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from Him." — Psalm 127:3

A baby's dedication is one of the most joyful moments in the life of a Christian family. It is filled with smiles, photographs, and heartfelt prayers. But beyond the celebration lies a much deeper spiritual significance.

Recently, during the dedication of baby Zachariah, an important question was asked:

What exactly is baby dedication, and why do Christians practice it?

The answer takes us back to one unchanging foundation—the Word of God.

The Bible: Our Standard for Truth

How do we know Jesus was born in Bethlehem? How do we know His first miracle was turning water into wine? How do we know He was crucified between two criminals?

Not because we witnessed these events, but because God's Word records them.

Our beliefs should never be shaped by tradition, popular opinion, or human reasoning. They must always be measured against Scripture.

Even after His resurrection, Jesus did not simply reveal Himself immediately to the disciples on the road to Emmaus. Instead, He explained the Scriptures, showing them that everything had happened according to God's Word.

The Bible remains the believer's ultimate authority.

Why Don't We Baptize Babies?

Many Christian traditions practice infant baptism, while others practice baby dedication. This naturally raises the question:

What does the Bible teach?

Scripture consistently presents a clear order:

1. Repent
2. Believe in Jesus Christ
3. Be baptized

Peter declared on the Day of Pentecost:

"Repent and be baptized..."

Likewise, Paul told the Philippian jailer:

"Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved."

Repentance and faith require a personal decision.

A baby cannot yet understand sin, repent, or place personal faith in Christ. Therefore, baptism—which publicly identifies a believer with Christ—belongs after someone personally trusts Him.

Understanding Original Sin

Every human being is born with what Scripture calls a sinful nature.

We are not sinners because we commit sins.

Rather,

We commit sins because we are born sinners.

Parents quickly discover this reality. Children do not need lessons in selfishness, disobedience, or lying. Those tendencies arise naturally because humanity inherited a sinful nature through Adam.

Only faith in Jesus Christ can deal with that deepest problem.

What Is Baby Dedication?

Baby dedication is not a command in Scripture.

Rather, it is a meaningful and biblical practice that allows believing parents to publicly acknowledge that:

• Their child is a gift from God.
• God has entrusted that child to their care.
• They desire to raise the child according to God's Word.
• They seek God's blessing and guidance as parents.

In many ways, dedication is similar to having a wedding reception or celebrating birthdays. These practices are not commanded in Scripture, yet they are good and meaningful expressions of joy and gratitude.

Biblical Examples of Dedication

Although Scripture does not command baby dedication, it provides meaningful examples.

Hannah and Samuel

Unable to have children, Hannah prayed earnestly for a son.

When God answered her prayer, she fulfilled her promise by presenting Samuel before the Lord, acknowledging that he ultimately belonged to God.

Her dedication reflected gratitude and surrender.

Mary, Joseph, and Jesus

After Jesus' birth, Mary and Joseph presented Him at the temple according to Jewish custom.

This was not baptism.

Years later, Jesus Himself chose to be baptized at around thirty years of age.

This distinction reminds us that dedication and baptism serve completely different purposes.

What Happens During a Dedication?

The child is not making promises.

The parents are.

They publicly commit themselves before God and the church to:

• Raise their child according to Scripture.
• Teach God's Word faithfully.
• Pray consistently for their child.
• Provide a loving Christian home.
• Point their child toward a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.

The dedication is less about dedicating the child and more about dedicating the parents to God's calling.

The Biblical Responsibility of Parents

Parenting involves far more than providing food, education, or financial security.

God entrusts parents with the eternal responsibility of shaping a child's heart.

Scripture instructs parents to:

Teach God's Word Daily

Deuteronomy encourages parents to speak about God's commands:

• at home,
• while walking,
• when lying down,
• and when rising up.

Faith is meant to become part of everyday family life.

Lead by Example

Children learn far more from what parents do than from what they say.

A parent who teaches honesty while practicing dishonesty sends conflicting messages.

Authentic Christian living becomes one of the greatest lessons a child will ever receive.

Pray Constantly

Prayer should surround every stage of a child's life.

Parents can pray for:

• protection,
• wisdom,
• spiritual growth,
• friendships,
• education,
• future decisions,
• and ultimately, salvation.

Talk Naturally About Jesus

Faith should never be limited to Sundays.

Simple conversations about God's goodness, answered prayers, and daily dependence on Christ help children see Christianity as a living relationship rather than merely a religion.

Model Repentance

Christian parents are not perfect.

When they fail, admitting mistakes and asking forgiveness teaches humility, grace, and genuine repentance.

Children benefit enormously from seeing authentic faith lived out.

Raise Children Within Christian Community

God never intended families to walk alone.

The church plays an important role in encouraging, teaching, praying for, and supporting children as they grow in faith.

Parents, grandparents, relatives, and the wider church family all share the privilege of pointing children toward Christ.

The Goal of Every Christian Parent

The ultimate purpose of parenting is not simply to raise successful adults.

It is to raise children who know, love, and follow Jesus Christ.

Parents cannot make that decision for their children.

Each child must eventually repent, believe the gospel, and personally place their faith in Christ.

But parents can faithfully prepare the way by teaching God's truth, living godly lives, and praying without ceasing.

Final Thoughts

A baby dedication is not about securing a child's salvation.

It is about recognizing God's gift, thanking Him for that blessing, and committing to raise the child according to His Word.

While baptism belongs to those who personally believe in Christ, dedication reminds parents of their sacred calling.

May every Christian home become a place where children learn not only about God—but come to know Him personally.

Because the greatest inheritance any parent can leave is not wealth or success, but a life firmly rooted in Jesus Christ.

 Word of Grace is an Evangelical (Born Again),  Spirit-filled (Charismatic), Reformed, English-speaking church in Pune that upholds the Bible as God's inspired Word for life. We are a church community that has people from every part of India and parts of the world. We are here to put the Great Command and the Great Commission into practice by equipping and releasing every member into works of service.  Word of Grace is part of a wider international family of Churches called RegionsBeyond.To know more about us please log onto www.wordofgracechurch.org. 

Biblical Parenting

 

 This message was preached by Colin DCruz via zoom at Word Of Grace Church on  January 10th 2021. for the audio please click here.  TO listen to the worship please click here

If I was to ask you what your gender is, would you think? Why did I ask this? These days, the gender question is assaulted. This morning, I want to state what establishes the fact about gender.

6 But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’ – Mark 10:6

God made them male and female. There are no 100+ gender identities. But there are only 2 – male and female.

27 So God created mankind in his own image,
    in the image of God he created them;
    male and female he created them.

28 God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.”

29 Then God said, “I give you every seed-bearing plant on the face of the whole earth and every tree that has fruit with seed in it. They will be yours for food. 30 And to all the beasts of the earth and all the birds in the sky and all the creatures that move along the ground—everything that has the breath of life in it—I give every green plant for food.” And it was so.

31 God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. And there was evening, and there was morning—the sixth day.

-        Gen 1:27-31

God’s Word outlines that there are only 2 gender identities and the mankind is made in His image. And it was very good. Let us look into a few important truths.

 

Family is from God

Are all families equal? Let us look into a real life example.

There was a man name Jonathan Edward. A study was made on the lineage of his family tree. This is what was found –

Out of approximately 1,400 known descendants:

 

·                  "practically no lawbreakers";

·                  more than 100 lawyers and 30 judges;

·                  13 college presidents, 100+ professors;

·                  100 clergymen, missionaries and theological professors;

·                  62 physicians;

·                  80 elected public officials, including 3 mayors, 3 governors, several congressmen, 3 senators and 1 vice-president (Aaron Burr);

·                  60 authors or editors with 135 books to their credit; and

·                  75 army or navy officers.

 

Let us now look the lineage of Max Dukes family tree.

Of the total group of related individuals, this is what was found -

·                  310 were paupers who spent a combined 2,300 years in poorhouses;

·                  130 were convicted criminals;

·                  50 women were prostitutes;

·                  7 were murders; and

·                  these paupers and criminals cost the state of New York $1.5 million to pay for their incarcerations and $1.25 million in public welfare and other costs to society apart from incarceration.

 

What is the difference? Bringing up the children according to God’s Word is the difference. We have choices to make. We need to make the right choice. The legacies we leave go onto many generations and impact the world.

How do we bridge the gap between starting and leaving a legacy?

 

1.     Material Provision

 

As parents, it is our responsibility to provide for our children.

 

8 Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. – 1 Tim 5:8

 

 

 

 

2.     Faithful Instruction

 

8 because you know that the Lord will reward each one for whatever good they do, whether they are slave or free. – Eph 6:8

 

We may provide with everything but without faithful instruction, they may get spoilt. Children however young, they do understand. So read to them the God’s word. Read the Bible stories. As they grow up, they would come to know the love of Jesus

Training them includes discipline in love.

 

3.     Giving a godly example

 

People should be able to see us training our kids.

 

 1 Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ. – 1 Cor 11:1

 

We should be a living example. Our walk must match our talk.

 

4.     Showering love upon our children

 

It is very easy to see our kids doing wrong. We should remember to give them affirmation, love and encouragement. Remember to shower love. Sometimes we wait for them to perform well. But our love should be unconditional just as our Father in heaven showers His love upon us.

 

Family is very important. It is not man’s idea, but God’s. The gender is male and female. What we do have repercussions in the next generations till Christ returns. So, we need to stay rooted in the Word of God.

   Word of Grace is an Evangelical (Born Again),  Spirit-filled (Charismatic), Reformed, English speaking church in Pune that upholds the Bible as God's inspired Word for life. We are a church community that has people from every part of India and parts of the world. We are here to put the Great Command and the Great Commission into practice by equipping and releasing every member into works of service.  Word of Grace is a part of a wider international family of Churches called RegionsBeyond.To know more about us please log onto www.wordofgracechurch.org.