Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Discipleship = Imitators = Building the Church


 This  is a summary of a message that was preached by Terry Virgo at the HUB Conference in Dubai in Nov 2012.  
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 TEXT :1 Thess. 1:2-8
2 We always thank God for all of you and continually mention you in our prayers. 3 We remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.4 For we know, brothers and sisters[b] loved by God, that he has chosen you, 5 because our gospel came to you not simply with words but also with power, with the Holy Spirit and deep conviction. You know how we lived among you for your sake. 6 You became imitators of us and of the Lord, for you welcomed the message in the midst of severe suffering with the joy given by the Holy Spirit. 7 And so you became a model to all the believers in Macedonia and Achaia. 8 The Lord’s message rang out from you not only in Macedonia and Achaia—your faith in God has become known everywhere. Therefore we do not need to say anything about it, 9 for they themselves report what kind of reception you gave us. They tell how you turned to God from idols to serve the living and true God, 10 and to wait for his Son from heaven, whom he raised from the dead—Jesus, who rescues us from the coming wrath.

This is a key church that Paul caries in his heart. Jesus said “go and make disciples “The apostles instinctively planted churches i.e they built communities. This is God’s way. This has sadly been forgotten but there is a restoration of this movement.

V7. You received the word – Luke records “the word multiplies” in Acts. How do they record it? – Becoming imitator of ‘us’- (v.6) receiving the word that was preached. The word was accompanied by power and when their life style changed, he knew they were transformed.

Jesus washed the feet the disciples and then tells them to do the same. Discipleship was the key – so that they could see him. God changes life in this way, as people see, they imitate and are transformed (1Jn1:2)
John who was the son of thunder becomes an apostle of love- how? Because he encountered a life, and became an imitator.

Disciples are imitators, apprentices. Imitate in the Bible is never negative. A disciple needs a demonstration of how to live as a son. You know that people are following when they imitate the life style.

Children learn by imitation. Our view of a father is so wrecked that our whole world view is spoiled. (Rom1:26) Their minds are futile but when they get saved they have to be delivered from a whole world view and learn a new life style- they get born again in the church and then they imitate the life style. Who are elders? They are exemplary Christians who are worthy of imitation.

Then there is the joy in the Holy Spirit that comes upon them as well. So there is a model and an energy force too. The early church looked like a group of drunks – it was the joy of the Holy Spirit that made them very happy – but it did not free them from the storms. It’s heaven coming down into us to empower us. Eph 5:15- therefore we have to be careful, be wise because the days are evil – therefore he says be filled with the Holy Spirit. Is that the answer? Yes it’s the way you do it and cope and more than just cope!

That’s why Paul in Philippians could praise God in the prison He knew it’s the way you win the battle. People get drunk because they can’t handle life – either its tough or its boring. Drunkenness – escaping reality.
Filled with the spirit – empowering – the love of God is poured out in your heart. Discipleship takes place in a church context not in a school.

Verse 9 They become spontaneous – there was a change in life as a result of repentance. Paul lives in a generation clogged up with idolatry. Israel was delivered from Egypt. At Mt. Sinai God declared a covenant with two million people and they all heard God speak! God called them His special treasure and he sets out the deal – he gives them the 10 Commandments. He tells them not to have idols or any other Gods.  Exodus 34:14 God calls himself Jealous! We think its an ugly word. This jealousy has nothing to do with the ugly things we associate it with. Jealousy – its focused. He is for us and desires our love.
Tragically that was not the case. Israel went after other Gods. Many people have many idols in their lives.

If not for the joy of the Holy Spirit, being a disciple of Jesus can become full of compulsions. The man who found the pearl of great price – he did it out of joy not because he had to. He gave up everything with joy.
You turn from idols to serve the living God and to wait for the Son from heaven. Therefore we are serving and waiting.

Serving – we can accomplish much while waiting for the perfect to come. We do both. Jesus gave himself up for a people with a burning desire to do good works. Paul worked hard. Every Epistle ends with the return of Jesus. That is the ‘waiting’. “Working and waiting belong together”- Stott
Our over realized eschatology says we have it now. No! We are working and waiting. In the waiting – there is hostility, persecution etc. So have the joy of the Holy Spirit to keep you going.

Verse 8 – From you has sounded out the word in every place. This is beginning to happen to us as a movement. God is gathering a people from everywhere!

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Gospel Relevance - going wide, high and deep


The message was preached by Stephen Van Rhyn at THE HUB Conference , Dubai. This is a summary of the sermon.
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The gospel is relevant in our  lives even as we are being called to go higher and wider.  However it is important, that we go deeper . We need to dig deep foundations.

TEXT:2 Cor. 1: 9-11 Indeed, we felt we had received the sentence of death. But this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God, who raises the dead. 10 He has delivered us from such a deadly peril, and he will deliver us again. On him we have set our hope that he will continue to deliver us, 11 as you help us by your prayers. Then many will give thanks on our behalf for the gracious favor granted us in answer to the prayers of many.”

  1. 1     Gospel Honesty- Paul planted this church- he saw people being saved and a community established. He wrote letters to them to help them grow to maturity therefore the letters are full of correction, calling them to a kingdom lifestyle.

A new breed of leaders was emerging who were calling themselves Apostles and they didn’t thing that Paul was very great! So now Paul is defending himself but in a different way. Paul doesn’t talk big about himself – in fact he tells them that he is even weaker than they think he is!! The world tells you to air brush all your weakness but Paul wants to inform and draw attention to his weakness. Paul understood that the gospel changes everything and flips everything – it makes us realize that before a holy God we are bankrupt. The gospel released Paul from any pretence and tells the truth like it is. He did not have to prove himself. This releases us from being driven and competitive. God is for each one of us no matter who and where we are from. Once you know that, it will release you to Gospel Honesty.

  
   2.Gospel Focus: Gospel honesty will release you to gospel focus. What Paul was doing was intentionally undermining the super pastor model that was distorting the biblical view of leadership.
Followers of Christ are not supposed to be jockeying for leadership and position. Leaders point to who God is and to present Christ to a broken world. It’s servant leadership. Mark1 John the Baptist pointed to Jesus.

3 Gospel Bearer: Too many Christians are being deceived into the prosperity gospel. 2Cor1 is a picture of God bigger than that and more.  In 2 Cor 1:10- there is  pretty bad stuff happening there.
Paul explained the redemptive purpose of the hardships he faced. Too many people bail out when they are going through rough weather. That is why Paul could write Rom 8:28 “… all things God works together for our good” i.e all the bad things will be worked out for our good – even the worst things.

4.Gospel Partnership – verse 11. Their advance was vitally connected to the prayers of the Corinthian church. Ch 10:15-16.
The gospel should not lead you to a position of isolation but of partnership because you realize you need help. The gospel should lead us into partnership because we need to go to the ends of the earth.

5. Gospel Power – The redemptive purpose of all that happened is to depend on the power of God. If you think about the gospel, the problem is not our weakness but our strength. With God weakness is never a problem. Its when we think we are something and when we rely on ourselves that we grieve the Holy Spirit. Ps. 127 – unless the Lord builds the house, the labourers  labour in vain.
With the Lord we can advance. Jer 17:5-8
This is what the Lord says:

“Cursed is the one who trusts in man,
    who draws strength from mere flesh
    and whose heart turns away from the Lord.
6 That person will be like a bush in the wastelands;
    they will not see prosperity when it comes.
They will dwell in the parched places of the desert,
    in a salt land where no one lives.
7 “But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord,
    whose confidence is in him.
8 They will be like a tree planted by the water
    that sends out its roots by the stream.
It does not fear when heat comes;
    its leaves are always green.
It has no worries in a year of drought
    and never fails to bear fruit.”

Cursed is the man who depends upon himself – when we do that we block God out.
Lets dig deep foundations on Christ alone.


Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Who tells you where to go?


Enqurie of the Lord
 This prophecy was  brought by Navaz DCruz  at TOAM 2012  Bangalore . God is looking for a people who who inquire after Him and not chase methods or man for success.

In a time of change and expansion I believe the Holy Spirit wants to remind us to be like King David, who hungered and longed for the presence of God. He said that to him the presence of God was better than life itself, sweeter than honey and any human love.
David also learned to inquire of the Lord. Where did he learn this?


 He learned this when no one was watching. He had a deep and private walk with God where he inquired of the Lord. He won battles in the private place- that’s where he took on the lion and the bear. Therefore he could take on Goliath. People tried to give him human counsel, advice and solutions (the wearing of Saul’s armour). But David knew that the battle belonged to God and that God would come through for him. He knew his sling shot was good enough because that’s how he fought in the private place and with God by his side. We are to be careful of worldly ways . It will not bring success.
God wants us to seek Him,  to inquire after his heart. David did not abandon this when he became King. He always asked God whether he should fight a battle or not, whether he would have victory or not. God’s voice gave him the confidence to go or to hold back. When we do this we will have victory.

Navaz D Cruz 
Nov 2012

Saturday, November 17, 2012

A band of many colours

 As I was praying for The HUB and TOAM Bangalore I felt the Holy Spirit give me a word that He said   I should share at both the Conferences.




I saw a picture of a  band of many colours like that of a rainbow. It was a long band that went around the earth, encircling it and it had all the colors in all their brilliance.
I felt the Lord say that we are like that band of many colours where each colour adds beauty to the band and a distinctness .

 However these were not clear defined bands of colour - they blended and merged one into the other. There were many shades within a colour and the reds gave way to the oranges which gave way to the yellows and so on.
The Lord impressed upon me 1 Cor12:12 The body is a unit thought is is made up of many parts and though its parts are many they form one body" verse 21 says The eye cannot say to the hand I don't need you.

In the same way one colour cannot do without the other- the band would be incomplete. 
In the same way - we need each other. Together we bring out the brilliance of all the colours and display the manifold wisdom of God which is the church . If you took something away there would be something missing.

I felt the Lord day in a time of change, we need each other more than we realize. There is great synergy in partnership - we can do more together than apart. The band went around the earth- together we can make an impact on the nations,. We will be from this nation to the nations - a band of many colours.

Navaz DCruz

November 2012

Sunday, November 4, 2012

Has your wine run out???


This message was preached by Terry Virgo on the 2nd of November at Gateway Church.  

John 2
This story is about panic, potential shame and embarrassment. In those days when there was a wedding, it was a village event- so the whole village got involved in what was happening. And now the bridal parties have run out of wine!

 This could get to be known as the wedding “where the wine ran out”! You may be in a situation where the wine has run out- maybe a business, maybe a relationship, you are in a problem that no one knows about yet – it’s still under the surface. That is why these stories are here in the bible. John calls them ‘signs”. Signs point to something. There are 7 signs in the gospel of john. John20:31 says that these things were written so that we might know that he is the Christ and have life in his name.

In those days weddings lasted 7 days and they were now running out of wine. Jesus is at this wedding. One may think what an extraordinary place to do your first miracle! Satan thought that a good place to start was something more dramatic like Jesus throwing himself down the temple dome. But Jesus thought otherwise. He was happy to be at a party and be a part of normal life. He did not say “I have come to have meetings and have them more abundantly”

Jesus likes to be involved in our lives, at work, our family etc. He was not the focal point at this wedding- he was just there and happy. It’s a sign, so what’s it saying. Jesus is for marriage, for covenant and for commitment. Today marriage is under threat – people prefer to just move in with one another and its not working. The bible finishes with a marriage – the wedding supper of the Lamb!

God requires 3 things from us : To do justice, love mercy and walk humbly with your God. Sometimes a marriage goes through tensions but God loves covenant love. The Lord wants us to have covenant love in this area. Has the wine run out in this area of your life?

Jesus had a strange conversation with his mother. He addresses his mother as “women”. He said the same thing to the woman at the well. Yet at the cross he did care for her. The phrase he uses “woman, what do I have to do with you?” is literally translated as “what to me to you?”  You hear this phrase several time eg) to the women at the well, the legions to Jesus.
Remember, Jesus was a perfect child. At 12 it says he was obedient to them. Jesus probably was the rock of his family because probably Joseph died young. You don’t hear about Joseph.

Jesus starts his ministry at the age of 30. He is already gathering disciples. There is an overlap between his family life and his ministry. Mary turns to him as she always did at home and this is the moment when Jesus draws a line in the sand saying the old days at home have drawn to a close – it’s over. He is now declaring his freedom from human advice, manipulation or agenda. Why is this important? We often feel Jesus is there for us like a Jinni who can get to do what we want. “Jesus please get me a taxi, Jesus please let the shop have ….”  He is there for us but we can miss the point.

Jesus answers by taking total charge. He gives instructions that are specific, unreasonable and that require faith and obedience. This is what He is inviting us to - to another dimension of living.

We often invite Jesus into our hearts to be a part of everything else that is going in our hearts. We say “Jesus comes in to my heart” and we make him reside with all our other idols etc and we expect him to be there for us.
Jesus asks them for water- they must have been confused. It’s Jesus taking control and giving instructions. We have to surrender our thinking to his lordship.

We see that Mary did very well. Her response was “Whatever He says to you do it”
This disciple got used to doing what Jesus asked of them like putting the nets on the other side even though they had fished all night; then getting the donkey, fishing to pay their taxes etc. This is what Christian life is like. Will you do what he tells you to do? Jesus is not your Jinni but the king of Kings. Jesus comes to save with incredible extravagance and when he comes we ought to say “yes Lord”!

Word of Grace Church is a spirit filled (charismatic), evangelical  ( Born- again) English speaking church that preaches from the Bible as God's inspired Word of life. We are a church community that have people from every part of India and parts of the world. We are here to  put the Great Command and the Great Commission into practice by equipping and releasing every member into works of service. 

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Practicing the presence


This message was preached at Word of Grace Church on the 221st of Oct 2012 by Bill Berry.
You can listen to the audio recording by clicking here .
We can be followers of Jesus for many years and yet there is so much more we need to grow and realize our own sinfulness and need for brokenness.









TEXT : John 15
Jesus wants us to have joy that is the shalom of God where we lack nothing. “I am the true vine_- that implies that there are other vines that are not the real thing – there are other options that we can get plugged into.

As humans we search for a life of joy in many places but Jesus says that to have true joy we need to plug into Him. Some plug into their careers, their children etc. These are good but it’s not where we get our completeness from. Some plug into pleasure- the next vacation. But that lasting peace and joy comes from Jesus – the source of life. 

The Father is the vines dresser i.e  Jesus was under the father’s care and submission.
V2 Blake translates “Cut off” as “Lifts up”. The Jewish way of growing vine was to let it run on the ground and they would prop up the vines on small rocks ( not on sticks like we do today). He lifts us up when we are not fruitful to help us bear fruit. The ones that are bearing fruit he prunes to make them more fruitful. Hebrews 12- the Father disciplines those whom he loves so that we will produce the life that will bring joy and satisfaction. So let him do the pruning.

Heb12:-2 this is what the Father is involved in – helping to remove sin in our lives and the things that hinder. Hindrances are not necessarily by sin but it can affect our spiritual life Eg) over work, over spending etc.

What is the greatest need of humanity? To be delivered from sin. That’s why God sent Jesus.The most important thing is not a good job, a good education, spouse, but the forgiveness of sin because God gave his very best for the greatest need. We need to be freed from the penalty and power of sin. So the father disciplines us so that we can become free from the power of sin and we can bear more fruit.

Heb 12:2 The way we overcome is by fixing our eyes on Jesus i.e. the eyes of our heart- that our heart is constantly in tune with Jesus. We need to be in constant contact. The greatest struggle is that we do not live in constant contact with Jesus. When was the last time I thought about Jesus? He wants to be in constant commune with you. What does “apart from me you can do nothing mean?’ Paul says pray without ceasing i.e commune with Jesus and there is awareness in the home as a husband/wife at work, pleasure time.

How do we do that ?
We need to learn to pray – it comes from practice. We need to practice the presence of God. His presence is always with us  .
Jesus could minister in power because he was in tune to the Father. Because we have Jesus with us we should be most creative people because we are in constant contact with the creator.
In business we can put God on display – he will give us ideas. Christian families should be supernatural. This comes  from abiding.

Verse 4 Jesus talks about fruitfulness. Fruit is about who you are – it will have an effect on what you do. John 13:34-35 Love one another- disciple. John 15:8  Fruitfulness – is being a disciple of Jesus. Fruitfulness authentically loves one another i.e the body of Christ. The world sees our love – this was the hall mark of the early church and they were testifying about it. Is the world seeing this today? 

Today not much difference between Christian s and non Christians in family life (we have almost the same divorce rates), business ethics etc. We have a lot of head knowledge but it not changing the heart. Proverbs 4:23 It’s the heart that God is interested in. The west has abandoned this and gone for the head or it’s gone for emotionalism.

But it’s the heart where the connection is. Get into communion with God. That is why worship touches the depths of your being. We need to learn to be in step with the spirit.
V8. “My father is glorified…” The way we glorified God is when we live in constant commune and that comes with practice. Experts become experts because they practice something about 10,000 times.
If you practice things you will make certain things begin to happen. Spiritual disciplines is the door that allows God to do things inside out. Repentance is not a onetime event but a process and a journey.

Verse 9  We are as loved by the father as he loves Jesus-the wonder, the mystery of this! These things I have said so that your joy will be complete.
We need to only keep the 2 great commands but we need Jesus to help us and the result of that obedience is joy. Joy is only found in loving God and loving people.
We need to practice abiding in Jesus. It will transform our lives and everything we do.   

Bill Berry 

21 Oct 2012

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Discipleship goal # 3- Heart Worship


Discipleship Goal #3 Heart Worship
This message was Word of Grace church  by Colin D Cruz on the  30th of September 2012 is a part of a series called "Discipleship Goals". You can listen or download  to the Audio recording  of the message by clicking here 

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Here at Word of Grace church we want to make Jesus last command our first priority after the Great command. We want to be disciples who make disciples of Jesus. Jesus in Matt28:18-20 commanded us to go and make disciples of all nations. Jesus will ask us, how many disciples we have made.

How do we make disciples?
Acts 2:37 Here is the order: Faith in Jesus, repentance, baptism by immersion and baptism in the Holy Spirit and finally being added to the church (verse 40). All these things happen within the context of a local church.

Then there are things that are lifelong. Salvation is an Event and a Process. There are things that are repetitive in our lives that are a part of our daily walk with God. 
There are 10 such things that I have identified.
Personal Worship- being committed to the Lord Jesus through personal prayer and meditation on His Word. 1Cor1:9
We need to spend time daily in the Word and prayer Mk1:35

Public Worship – Christianity is not a private affair but a public shared faith. The Bible records that people came together to worship. Each one of us should be committed to word the Lord corporately. Heb10:24-25

How do we honor God here? – First, be on time. Come to participate in prayer, prophecy, reading of scripture etc.

Today we will look at discipleship goal #3

HEART WORSHIP

Have you ever been deceived by somebody? It’s a horrible feeling. Buts its far worse when you deceive yourself. The Bible speaks of this in James 1:22 Do not merely listen .. do what it says. Discipleship is learning to obey the Word of God.

Where is your heart this morning? Some people like to collect things and some collect all sorts of things viz, stamps, coins, etc etc.
For some it's new clothes, gadgets, etc. For some its good food.
As Christians where should our affections be? Jesus gave us a indicator. There are certain tests we do for our body. Jesus outlines a test to find out where our heart is.
Matt6:21 Where your treasures is there your heart will also be.

Litmus test on where our heart is
This morning I’m going to speak to you on a topic that you will be surprised to know is very important to God.
  1. Jesus said more about this than anyone else in the Bible.
  2. He said more about this subject than any other subject
  3. There are more verses on this subject than on faith and prayer combined. (2350)
  4. 15 percent of Jesus recorded words are on this one subject.
What is that topic ?
The topic is MONEY. (associated with it wealth, possessions and handling them)

  1. How could Jesus say more about money than about both heaven and hell?
  2. Why does God give us so much instruction on money and possessions?
  3. Why did he say more about this than about any other single thing?
  4. Why? What did he know about money and possessions that we don’t?
  1. How one handles money is a key indicator of a persons spiritual life

Zacheus was deeply touched by God. Jesus linked Zacheus ‘ attitude toward money to true salvation. His giving of money did not save him, but it was a sign of true repentance. Unlike the rich young ruler – he could not give up his earthly possessions.
6.      Luke 18:23-26 Acts 2 – The early church shared their possessions. V45 Selling their possessions and goods they gave to anyone as he had need.
7.      Acts 19:18ff Burned scrolls to do with sorcery worth 50,000 days worth of wages.

What we do with our money loudly affirms which kingdom we belong to.
Mark 12:41  – poor widow
Luke 12 rich fool

There is a powerful relationship between our true spiritual condition and our attitude and actions concerning money and possessions.
Our use of money and possessions is a decisive statement of our eternal values. What we do with our money loudly affirms which kingdom we belong to.

The key to a right use of money and possessions is a right perspective – an eternal perspective.
Far too many evangelicals have succumbed to the heresy that this present life may be lived disobediently without serious effects on their eternal state.
Never have so many Christians believed the lie that their money and possessions are theirs to do with as they please.
The issue of money and possessions lies at the very heart of the Christian life.
What we do with our money will influence the very course of eternity.

What does all this mean? How we handle our money affirms which kingdom we belong to. Jesus spoke about the true God and Mammon.

 Martin Luther – for each person there must be not only the conversion of the mind but also the conversion of the purse.

In India people are chasing money and thinking it will buy happiness and security therefore saying money is their God.

Imagine if TATA comes t you and says I want to hand over one of my companies to you, but here is the deal – you can keep 90% of the profits, but give me 10%. Would you take the offer? We would all jump at this.

Everything Belongs to God - Stewardship

Hag 2:8 The silver is mine and the gold is mine
Ps 24:1 The earth is the Lord’s and everything in it, the world and all who live in it.
Deut 8:10-17  v14 then your heart will become proud and your will forget the Lord your God who brought you out of Egypt out of the land of slavery
V17 you may say to yourself, “My power and the strength of my hands have produced this wealth for me”
 Deut 8:18 But remember the Lord your God for it is he who gives you the ability to produce wealth

 In the same way everything we have belong s to the Lord – our children, our health, our jobs, our money, our homes etc.

 Deut 8:18 God cautions the Israelite s from forgetting Him. In the Old Testament the requirement was 10%. In Leviticus 27:30 Jesus spoke about it in the New Testament and upheld it. 
But we are not in the Old Testament. In the New Testament the standard is much higher. It talks about generous sacrificial giving.

What  do we do with the tithes? Here are a few things
Those who preach the gospel should live by the gospel.1Cor9:14,11
To support the poor Acts 4:32
To advance the kingdom of God and other church plants




Giving in the New Testament

Should Christians Tithe ?
OT Lev 27:30 A tithe of everything from the land whether grain from the soil of fruit from the trees belongs to the Lord. It is holy.
Prov 3:9 Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the first fruits of all your crops, then your barns will be filled to overflowing and your vats will brim over with new wine.

Tithing is OT  Christianity – old covenant. What is NT Christianity – new covenant?
OT – Do not murder. NT – do not get angry with your brother and call him a fool
OT – do not commit adultery – NT anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery.

In the OT the standard was here in the NT the standard is much higher.
So if in the OT people gave a Tithe (10%) the in the NT the standard is much higher.
Zacheus –gave away 50% of his possession on his conversion.
2 Cor 8,9 talks about sacrificial, cheerful, willing giving.

For NT Christians, 10% is the starting point. As the Lord increase our income we need to give more. Rick Warren – gives away 90% of his income.

Remember it’s NOT your money. It’s on loan from the Lord.

It’s not wrong to enjoy ourselves with a nice holiday or a home or a car. All things have been richly provided for our enjoyment. But God doesn’t  want us to be self indulgent and self centred.
Mal 3:8-10 robbing God.

Mal 3:8 Will a man rob God? Yet your rob me. But you ask, “How do we rob you?” In tithes and offerings. You are under a curse – the whole nation of yours – because you are robbing me. Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this, says the Lord Almighty, and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it.

1 Cor 16:2 on the first day of every week, each of you should set aside a sum of money in keeping with his income...
Give because it belongs to God
Give because he will bless you even more.

Where should we give.
A lion’s share of your tithes should go into the storehouse of God. In OT – temple. In NT – the local church.
Where do you belong. Where is your spiritual shepherd. Where are you fed the word.  Give a major portion of your tithes there. Some people belong here but send their tithes to their “home church” or to some other ministry. That’s like eating at the Ritz Hotel and when the bill comes saying “I’m paying the Bill at Shiv Sagar”.

Friends bring the whole tithe into God’s storehouse – the local church.
Over and above tithes – God wants you to give offerings and also to help the poor.  Set aside some money to do that.
Pr 19:17 He who is kind to the poor lends to the Lord and he will reward him for what he has done.
Pr 22:9 generous to the needy
Lk 21 widows mite

You need supernatural grace and faith to give.
1 Cor 9: 9 ff , v14 – to support church workers and leaders
To support the poor – 2 Cor 8:14
Church planting -


HOW SHOULD WE GIVE?
Giving should be proportional
L. Kraft, head of the Kraft Cheese Corp., who had given approximately 25% of his enormous income to Christian causes for many years, said, “The only investment I ever made which has paid consistently increasing dividends is the money I have given to the Lord.” 
J. D. Rockefeller said, “I never would have been able to tithe the first million dollars I ever made if I had not tithed my first salary, which was $1.50 per week.”  Peter Marshall - Give according to your income, lest God make your income according to your giving.  
 Mother Teresa - If you give what you do not need, it isn’t giving 

Give generously
Give sacrificially
Give expectantly 2 Cor 9:10, God likens sowing to reaping
1Cor16:2 Give regularly and consistently. Give your first fruits and not your left overs
Give to the local church - Deut 15:10
Give to the poor – Deut 15:10
Give to your spiritual leaders – Gal 6:6
Give to brothers and sisters in need Acts 4:32


Giving requires supernatural grace of God. We, as Christ followers should not be controlled  by money. The solution to greed is to give. God bless you!

(Recommended Reading: "Simple Discipleship" - Dr. Tom Cocklereece
"WikiChurch"- Steve Murrell)